“Experts” used to believe that running a mile in under 4 minutes was impossible. No one had ever done it before, doctors thought the human body couldn’t sustain that level of strain, and it was kind of a self-fulfilling prophecy. People believed it was impossible and therefore it was impossible. Imagine being told that your […]
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Who else wants more calm & less stress in their parenting?
Do you lose your calm when your child doesn’t listen to your wisdom? The reason our child rocks our calm boat more than any other being is that this relationship is most deeply connected to our being and it’s the only relation which one can’t escape or deviate from or break from. Tweens and teens […]
Counseling -My goal is to become obsolete for my clients
Counseling I can easily put it as the reason to learn, share and have mindful life experiences . Working with our needs , feelings and thoughts ,I not only help my clients but myself as well on my counsiousness journey. Always on an lookout for making counseling better and adding more value to my clients […]
Resolve your parenting challenges with your teens
I was struggling with my parenting You see, back when I embarked on my parenting journey, I was working from a parenting style that I had seen, heard, and experienced myself while growing up. So it was all about discipline, results, shoulds, have to’s and my child was my project, my canvas to the world. […]
Uncomfortable feelings
What happens when we face uncomfortable feelings like sadness, anger, or dislike? What happens when we see our loved ones facing these uncomfortable feelings? What happens when we think that their uncomfortable feelings are so trivial? It is a common scenario for parents and all these things are intermingled in any simple incident of parenting […]
Does keeping information about your children sound a bit cold?
Do you “keep tabs” on each of your children? Does keeping information about your children sound a bit aloof? Is it about trust or giving a child a safe framework to navigate? When parents tell me that I want to trust my child and give him full control of his screen. And when the same […]
Revisiting Parenting Paradigm
Nothing else can explain messed up teenagers ,stressed adults better. I use to wonder as why/how do I choose my reactions to my child’s acting out ! Well , it seems to be deep embodiment of childhood conditioning ,extrapolated by social and institutional conditioning . Of all the conditioning ,a child has to go through […]
ART to ponder
Points to ponder Why do we parents enroll children in drawing classes? “He loves to draw and paint and wanted to join.” “She is good in drawing, so to enhance her skills”. “He was sitting idle at home, watching TV , at least learn something” “He loved one class and wants to continue” “She brings […]
BEAUTIFUL BURGER
“Look at my drawing “beamed my friend’s 5 year old girl, holding colored picture of burger with lettuce and tomatoes shapes and colors. Instant reaction to that good-looking burger was “wow “and I knew we have another masterpiece going on fridge. It’s not that her painting wasn’t amazing or I doubt her skill or potential, […]
WONDERING ……….
What happens in parenting ,which shifts our love for child’s learning to our fear of his future, fear generated by comparison . Where does this shift happens when the child and parent ,their love and connection for each other is same . When does the connection shifts to fear of our child will be left […]