Here’s how to stop the cycle and build trust Let’s connect. You’re worried. You see your teenager being what you think is irresponsible, and that future you’ve imagined for them? It starts looking a little shaky. So you remind them. You tell them again, and again. You push because you care. But here’s the thing—your […]
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How to motivate a teenager who doesn’t care?
Do you feel your child is lazy, unmotivated? Do you struggle to motivate a lazy teenager? Have you ever wondered what motivates someone, especially teenagers? Parents are worried if their teen is unmotivated to even complete homework then how will they be able to do work independently in college, career, job, life. Indeed, solid work […]
Who else wants more calm & less stress in their parenting?
Do you lose your calm when your child doesn’t listen to your wisdom? The reason our child rocks our calm boat more than any other being is that this relationship is most deeply connected to our being and it’s the only relation which one can’t escape or deviate from or break from. Tweens and teens […]
How to hold emotionally safe space for your troubled teen?
When you see a troubled teenager, do you only see behavioral and learning problems? Are you able to get a sense of underlying emotional troubles? Parenting troubled tweens and teens can be a roller coaster ride and it requires a good amount of work, patience, and consistent effort from parents. A TROUBLED TEEN IS STRUGGLING […]
Teenagers are confused , but parents can help them gain clarity.
Most of the teens and tweens are confused with their thoughts about their career , their feelings and changes they go through . They miss on prioritizing their time , energy and resources ,which costs them a lot . The cost they bear ,manifests in the form of anxiety , stress and panic attacks. It […]
How not to be an outdated PARENT ?
Are you an updated or outdated PARENT? We, parents, struggle to keep up to our child’s thought process, especially during their tweens and teenage years. Partly because of the internet, screen time, friends, academics take over. And more so ever their hormonal changes take over, and we find it challenging to find time and context […]
How to strengthen trust with your teenager ,so they share emotions with you
“He doesn’t share with me .If he would have shared , we would have helped him out. We have been so open and free with him and have never put any pressure or restriction on him , then why is he not sharing with us “-Parents asked me during session with their teenager. Teenager has […]
How unmotivated teenager bloomed to confident high-school graduate?
“We did it “an excited voice on the phone of the father of a teenager echoed in my ears. She has scored brilliantly in her high school final exams, got accepted to all 5 colleges of her choice and the whole family was feeling so proud. CO-CREATION OF EMOTIONAL MESS I still remember the first […]
I DON’T KNOW
” I DON’T KNOW ’” When I heard this n number of times during my counselling session of a teenager ,I wondered ,does he really so doesn’t know or is he trying to avoid talking. We were having a session to help him find his element , his flow . All I could gather was […]
Revisiting Parenting ,more so for parenting teenagers !
Really !!!!! What’s there to learn about parenting ? Doesn’t it comes naturally !!!!! Why should one revisit parenting, more so for teenagers? Revisit parenting!!!! What’s wrong with this style, one we all have been raised with? Do we at any point feel that our teenager is not reaching up to his/her potential besides all […]