Are you crushing your child with fears by showing them worst possible outcomes? Are these acquired fears or society induced fears in you which you project on your child? Can fear be a motivator or hurdle ? Do you want to talk yourself out of fear first ? Ask as what are your genuine fears? […]
HOLD ON TO YOUR KIDS
We humans have always held our kids since their birth , be be holding them physically or emotionally . It comes very naturally to us as we are responsible to keep them healthy and safe. During their growing up years , we want to hold onto our kids to help them evolve to their truest […]
Every Parent need to learn this
Recall your experience with GPS services /google maps. How did it feel when you were not criticized for wrong turn but were guided from where you were? How did you feel when you knew that even with any wrong turn, GPS will be there to help you? How did it feel to trust on GPS […]
If your child could choose parents ?
If he/she could choose his/her parents then what do you think would they be expecting. It’s a question, which I dreaded myself as a parent, but when I paused and reflected on it, I had amazing realization and awareness started setting in. Questions I reflected on:- How am I doing my parenting? Is it anywhere […]
Parents are Primary INFLUENCERS
Well, for obvious reasons Do you remember, your own parents influence on you? We all agree that no one knows or understand a child more than a parent and no one else can influence child more than a parent, especially in early years. That puts more pressure on parents to be right, to perform […]
BE A LEADER YOUR CHILD WANTS
As an individual, when do you trust someone (a friend, a relative, a partner or anyone for that matter of fact).Most probably, when you feel heard, when you feel accepted as you are, when you feel loved and cared. So, what do you think should make our children trust us with their secrets, thoughts, dreams, […]
I DON’T KNOW
” I DON’T KNOW ’” When I heard this n number of times during my counselling session of a teenager ,I wondered ,does he really so doesn’t know or is he trying to avoid talking. We were having a session to help him find his element , his flow . All I could gather was […]
Parenting and creativity
What has parenting got to do with creativity ? How’s child’s creativity influenced by parenting ? Well ,to understand this , we must be clear on what’s creativity ? CREATIVITY IS ONE OF A THINKING SKILL , WE ALL ARE BORN WITH . CREATIVITY IS ONE OF THE MUSCLE THAT REQUIRES NURTURING AND GROWING . […]
Revisiting Parenting ,more so for parenting teenagers !
Really !!!!! What’s there to learn about parenting ? Doesn’t it comes naturally !!!!! Why should one revisit parenting, more so for teenagers? Revisit parenting!!!! What’s wrong with this style, one we all have been raised with? Do we at any point feel that our teenager is not reaching up to his/her potential besides all […]
How our parenting patterns affect our children?
Parenting Patterns -Really !!!!! When I first heard this word during my Conscious Parenting learnings,I wondered as what could it possibly be . Aren’t we all parenting the same way we have been parented or the way our culture,society ,friends ,relatives do parenting. I know ,with definite exceptions ,of being aware of not repeating certain […]